Chokkklit Shop

Written by NottHeads Staff

Chokkklit Shop - Pick-up lines

The art of the pick up line seems to be in play more often in the Summer time than any other time of the year, but Spring is a good time to get an early start. Maybe has something to do with the heat, maybe the increased opportunities as the season heats up and we all tend to do more outdoor socializing. The trip to the beach, the picnic, cookout or concert; wherever there are men and women mingling you know it's game time. Call it game because women act like they don't want to be hollered at, but they put themselves in the direct line of attack; why? The verbal arsenal got them stuck like a deer in headlights!

You know as a woman that if you step out your door and go to an event, the fellas are going to try to spit game. Game, it really is a game; how do you win or loose at this ritual, right of passage of picking a mate. Women want the attention, the affirmation that they're attractive. Men are looking for the best possible mate, or at least some action; she may not be the right one, but she can be Miss Right-Now!

Game on!!

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Chokkklit Shop - A fling or a long-term relationship?

There's something about spring and summer that makes everyone think that they should be coupled. Maybe it's the advertiser's images of vacation getaways, showing happy couples dancing, kissing and romping on the beach. Is it Mother Nature; those warm summer nights that let us know winter is over and we can come out of hibernation. You can't listen to the radio late nights without running into a Love Zone, Quite Storm, Midnight Whispers, Smooth Grooves or by any other name an ode to romance and couples. So, if you didn't have anyone to keep you warm before, then now's the time to find him or her. Whatever the reason, it just seems to be the thing to do, our nature.

If you hook-up with a guy on your vacation to the Bahamas, or Jamaica you can definitely rule that a summer fling. But if you met a guy at the company picnic or a friend's wedding reception and you hit it off, how do you know that there is long term potential? The best way to approach this is like any other relationship, let it build slowly. There is no way to microwave a relationship or else it will be ready, done, and over in microwave minute. Just because everything around you is pushing for a spring romance, doesn't mean you have to fast track the relationship before summer ends. Seasons will come and go, but if you want him around for while, take your time, enjoy the outdoor activities that spring and summer offers and move slowly toward the hot summer night, steamy sex scenes that you long for. If you dive right in, you have removed a very crucial step in building a relationship. You've forgotten to be friends first, before becoming his buss-it-baby.

6^th Month Realization (NottHead - 09)

I never said I was ready for a relationship

I never said I was looking for a commitment

You know I care deeply,

I am emotionally involved

But remember

This thing of ours

Is more than casual

But it was always subject to change

But remember