Chokkklit Shop - October 07

a Chokkklitsoul poem

I love the way he shudders beneath my lips
I feel as if I've touched the sun
beads of sweat wiped from my brow
with this one, he is the one
His tender touch, a pained desire sings a song inside of me
I graze my fingers on his chest to its heartfelt melody
Love's most impeccable design painted by his soul and mine blind-
Love's most impeccable design painted by his soul and mine blind-
that one true love, so hard to find
intimately pantomimed
thirsting for my lover's kiss
I gently kiss and caress his face
my body lost in his embrace as he takes me to that special place
Merged together, him and I
his name I call into the sky
with little sobbing breaths, we cry-
with little sobbing breaths, we cry
consumed by love, this man and I

Monday, 01 October 2007 00:00

Most of my blogs come from the male perspective, and I try to talk about social and political issues under the theme of renaissance and revolution. Had a discussion that elicited strong emotions about relationships, I was chided that all that history and the politics of the day was interesting and all that, but what was I doing to encourage better relationships between men and women. So that it isn’t from my chauvinistic and egotistic perspective, I asked her for a message in her own words. Men and women seem to speak in two different languages, but she was right, she’s more than just her cookies. Read her thoughts below.

NottHead

Why is the self-esteem of some women tied to how quickly a guy wants to bed them? Everywhere you look there are pictures of desirable women. The advertising industry uses attractive women to sell products; but does that lead women to a place of selling themselves?

Women have long known how to use their attractive features to get what they want or even get ahead. Lately it seems that is all we know. When a guy doesn’t show an immediate interest in bedding a woman, she becomes insecure and starts wondering what could be wrong with her. As if that’s all she has to offer. Women who seemingly have it all together (education, career, home, church) can still be reduced to tears at the thought of rejection in a relationship.

Monday, 01 October 2007 00:00

Chokkklit Shop 07

Intimacy is him cherishing me and me needing him. It's all those little kisses in between. It's going out with other couples and still sitting next to each other. It's getting home from work and finding each other first. It's cuddling up on the sofa together to watch a movie or just chat about anything. It's always treating each other well and never allowing the sun to go down on an argument or a disagreement. It's holding hands in public every chance you get.

Monday, 01 October 2007 00:00