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The Dreadful Dating Double Standard

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Chokkklit Shop - September 07

The first time a woman has relations with a guy she's crazy about is an exciting and special time. Still, the question remains; when? Well, it depends....

Some women are happy to get down to business the night they meet; others will wait weeks or months before doing the deed. Whatever a woman's decision, I had to ask: Does the double standard still exist today? In other words, if a woman gives up the cookie to a guy too soon, does she automatically nix her chances for long-term love or is that old-fashioned nonsense in today's modern-day dating scene? To find out, I have interviewed men and women to get different perspectives on the subject at hand.

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The Only Time You Love Her

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Written by Chokkklit Soul

This is an original poem by Chokkklitsoul. All rights reserved!

The only time you love her ...

Why didn't you call
Why didn't you call her back this morning?

It's because you do not care
would it even catch your attention
that her heart is in despair?

You told her all the answers
before the questions were asked.
You knew just how to do it
before you knew the task.

You closed up all the curtains,
so no one can see inside
you wanted her all to yourself
and all you did was hide.

She thought you were both on the same page
that you could get to know each other
out the door you flew like a flash
to give love to another.

You're afraid of all her beauty
and what's inside her head
the only time you love her
is when she's lying in your bed.

ChokkklitSoul

frozen heart


 

How Long Should You Wait Before You Have Sex?

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Chokkklit Shop - 08

This has been the topic of discussion between women and men for hundreds of years; which has no definitive answer. Women and men are split and basically have two views on the topic: one view is, to be a good girl and make him wait and the other view, is being able to fulfill their needs like men. A large percentage of men says, "if a woman gives up the cookie too soon, she has no chance to be the apple of his eye".

Julianna Cain

In general younger men is that, they refuse to wait for sex. Younger men admit to moving on to someone who will put out vs. someone who is saving it for later! What is odd and intriguing to me is the practice of not respecting a woman who decides to have sex right away, in other words they say these women are not "wifey" material. It's rather confusing, if they are not into waiting for sex from a woman; whom are they planning to marry? At some point, they will end up waiting for the "good girl".

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The Female Panelist Opinions

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Chokkklit Shop - September 07

Who's being asked the questions
Panelist
RaShelle- School Teacher, 27, never been married
 
LaShawnda- Web Design, 29, in a long-term relationship

Lisa- Administrative Assistant, 32, married 2 years

I interviewed 3 women and 3 men to find out their views on this subject and their responses may shock you!

Q: How do you think men feel about women who sleep with them on the first or second date?  Does it affect whether they see you as a potential long-term girlfriend?

Lisa: It doesn't matter if you sleep with a man on the first date or the 20th - if he really likes you, it won't make a difference. But if you're not sure and want to test how he feels about you, hold off. If he's willing to stick around for a few dates and not pressure you, then you've yourself got a good guy. If you don't sleep with him and don't hear back from him, then you know exactly where his intentions were, and you wouldn't have heard back otherwise either.

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The Male Panelist Opinions

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Chokkklit Shop - September 07

Who's being asked the questions
PanelistDeWayne- Firefighter, 35, never been married

Will- Customer Service, 33, divorced

Jake- Real Estate, 32, married

Q: What do you think about women who sleep with you on the first or second date - does it impact whether you see her as a potential long-term girlfriend?

Will: I don't view the timing of the first occurrence of sex with a woman as an indicator of anything. Never.

DeWayne: If a girl slept with me that quickly, I would consider it a deal-breaker. Men are wired to want to sleep with others more quickly because of instant gratification. But if a woman had that little self-control, it would not bode well for the future.

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Should We Discuss Our Sexual History With Our Potential Partners

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Monday, 03 September 2007 00:00

Should we be honest?

Women and men both get grilled everyday about their past sexual history. I have been asked by previous mates and 9 times out of 10 they couldn't provide me with a number but, held me to a standard of how many is acceptable in their minds! I can honestly say I haven't been really promiscuous in my lifetime. I feel my number is low, but men shouldn't ask because they can't handle it! More than likely they don't even know how many partners they have had. It's a double standard that will probably never fade away. Men always say they know women are lying about it. I have read that time and time again, but when you ask that same man, there numbers exceed yours by far!

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